My oldest daughter was feeling frustrated, and so she wrote this as her Facebook status:
Dear people who are looking at our house tomorrow, you better buy it. Because this whole cleaning our butts off thing, is getting kind of old. And our butts aren't liking it very much. Thanks :)
We all had a good laugh over that one, because that is exactly how we feel! For anyone who has ever had your house for sale, you know exactly what I mean.
She wrote that on Sunday. On Monday, Hubs went away for business. We had the showing that afternoon. On Monday night, Hubs called me and said that we had received an offer on our house.
We began the negotiating process, and came to an accepted offer. All within just a few days time!
I have been frantically calling all around, looking for a place for us to live while our new house is being built. We are supposed to be closing around the first week of September, and then, we only have 21 days to vacate the premises.
The same day we came to an accepted offer on our house, we found out that it definitely IS basal cell carcinoma by Hubs' eye. We had gone to the dermatologist, like I mentioned before, and they did another biopsy. It came back that it wasn't cancer. But, the doctor did not feel comfortable just letting it go since we had already had the first biopsy show possible cancer. So, he had a 2nd opinion done on the 1st biopsy, and it came back as cancer. This was not the news we were expecting to hear, as they told us that their biopsy did not show any cancer.Talk about confusing! They told us that the 2nd biopsy was probably just scar tissue. The cancer is deeper than the eye can see, and the biopsy probably just removed the top layer.
We are now being referred to a larger hospital where he will be having MOHS surgery with reconstruction. The doctor feels like it is too close to his tear duct for him to perform the surgery. He told us that when you have cancer this close to your eye, you want someone who does this EVERY day working on you. This is something that can be put off for a little while, but since Hubs has already waited so long in the first place, we don't have a lot of time before it starts to make things more complicated to fix. It is already starting to get worse.
Add this to the hecticness of selling our house, and trying to find a place to live, and this Mama has been feeling the stress!
Oh, did I forget to tell you, that school will be starting up for us soon, and there are decisions that still need to be made in that area also? I have purchased some books, but there are still things I need to research and buy. Thankfully, I am not on the school system's timeline, and I can do school how I want to, but most importantly, WHEN I want to!
So, you will have to forgive me if I am a little quiet on here. I promise to try to update you when I can. I am going to try to pull together that elusive garage sale I referred to in an earlier post. No time like moving time to get rid of stuff!
Now, if I can just get the children to part with some of their stuff.
Wow! That is a lot. Praying that God makes your path as smooth as possible with all these transitions and stressors going on.
ReplyDeleteThanks, Samantha! Prayers for direction, peace, and wisdom would be greatly appreciated :)
ReplyDeleteOh I hate packing up a house to move - I don't envy you, but at least it was quick and you can now quit having to have the house prim and proper every couple of days. So sorry to hear about hubs. but at least you are being referred to a specialist and hope it is all done and done with soon, with a positive outcome. School would be the last thing on my mind.
ReplyDeleteI have never packed up a house since I have had children, other than when we moved this house when my oldest was just a baby. She didn't really have much input on what to keep or give away back then ;)
DeleteAmiee..look at how many times you had your house for sale over the years and couldn't sell it. If God has brought you a buyer now, in the middle of all this hecticness and with John's diagnosis, I am fully confident He is going to work ALL things for your good. Change is hard...but if we allow it, change can be exciting. A new adventure. Keep your eyes on Jesus, your hand in His and let Him worry about the details...you just trust Him. I'll keep praying for your family.
ReplyDeleteThanks, Kari <3 I appreciate your support and your prayers. We ARE excited about the this new adventure :)
DeleteAmiee, praying for you all! We are excited about your house news , and are keeping John in our prayers, as well as your future housing! I'm glad you have a blog, so we can keep touch in this way. Plus, I enjoy your writing :). Have a good day, my friend!
ReplyDeleteThanks, Candice <3 I appreciate your support and prayers. I'm glad you enjoy reading my writing :) You have a great day too!
DeleteHi Aimee! I have to admit, I found comfort in this post tonight. I too, am walking a path that mirrors yours right now--our house is on the market {I COMPLETELY understand the "crazy cleaning" lol! We were actually thinking about building a new house as well, but I know my limits & cannot be "homeless" for an extended amount of time}, my mom was diagnosed with cancer a few weeks ago & next Tuesday I will be leaving my two year old & two month old behind with my hubby & loved ones so that I can go with my mom to a cancer Institute to be treated. Life throws curve balls, doesn't it? Although I hate to see anyone else traveling this same path, it's strangely comforting to know I'm not alone! Thank you for sharing! You ministered to my heart. I will keep your family in my prayers! Keep us updated!
ReplyDeleteI'm glad that I could bring you some comfort through my post. Life certainly does have a way of throwing you "curve balls"! We have been told that this is the "good" kind of cancer to have, but it is still scary to me! I know God has a plan, and that He can see the big picture. I just wish I could see it too sometimes :)
DeleteSorry to hear about your Mom :( I will be praying for her, and for you, as you have to leave your babies.
I will pray all goes smoothly with your move... The only good thing about all the packing and unpacking is the opportunity to sort and purge!
ReplyDeleteI nominated you for a blog award on my blog... http://highmaintenanceaspirations.blogspot.com/2012/08/another-award-yippee.html
Good news on the house. Sorry to hear about the results on your husbands eye. Praying all will go well. ((HUGS))
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